Our lives can't revolve on the roles and responsibilities that we need to perform. We need time to reflect on what has been happening to our lives, listen to our hearts and plan where we want to row our boats to. Time may come that we need to go against the current and head to the place where we are the only ones who see meaning and purpose. Many obstacles may hinder us from getting there. There may be a need to leave a bigger, physical or worldly benefit in exchange for the smaller one. The things that you will forego will never amount to the indescribable feeling of becoming someone you really want to be. Nothing can make you happy other than doing what you really love.